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May 14, 2008

Sneak Preview of My June Lead Story...

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The World Is Rich With Opportunity

With all the talk about lack of jobs, mortgage crisis, money woes, I found this article that I thought would really pick somebody up with hope and a greater outlook…from Jim Urban. Enjoy…

Do you think that opportunity only knocks once? If you do, Richard Carlson, author of Don’t Worry – Make Money, says you’re buying into one of the most perpetuated myths in our culture.

Carlson argues that this kind of thinking inspires people to do things they really don’t want to do, and that it’s based on a “never enough to go around” mindset that just isn’t true. Thinking that it’s “now or never” often encourages bad decision making, he says. For example, you might take a job you don’t want or move to an area that doesn’t suit you.

The world we live in is rich with ever-increasing opportunity, says Carlson. The world is in need of creative people, and everyone has unique gifts and talents to offer. You just have to figure out how it’s going to work for you. There are thousands of jobs out there that you can do. There are thousands of business opportunities. But first you have to overcome your fears: the fear of not having enough, and the fear that you only get one shot and then it’s over.

It just isn’t so. Your life will be filled with great opportunities over and over again. Article provided by “By Referral Only”

May 11, 2008

Mondays Good News Wisdom Market Update Video

Brief Update following Mothers Day!

6 minutes and 55 seconds long...

May 10, 2008

Happy Mothers Day

Mothers_day What Mothers Day Means This Year to me...

Today I am helping with a Mothers Day Brunch. Tomorrow I will be also helping with the cooking. It is important to take care of the Mothers in my life this weekend. They need a break. Sit back and enjoy yourself.

  • My Wife who is the Mother of my children and is wonderful
  • My Mother is wonderful
  • My Mother-in-Law is wonderful

Without these Mothers I would be not the person who I am. They do acts of kindness everyday for their children. They are like Angels from God. I know I am one of the blessed ones.

This also goes out to all the mothers who deserve a break for all you do to make the world a better place.

Jim

May 04, 2008

Mondays Good News Market Update Video...5-5-2008

I made a Unicycle Video again. for those that may remember...I had so many fun comments from my last Unicycle video I thought it would be fun to make another one.

  • Balance and practice are keys to successful unicycle training as is Real Estate Consulting
  • Bank deals, Short sales, Regular homeowners all competing for the same buyer
  • Be willing to allow me to find you the right home
  • Be willing to allow me to show you my 30-60-90 day home pricing strategy.
  • I can consult, netgotiate, and oversee the transactional details for you!

Enjoy the video!

May 03, 2008

The Condo and Town Home Real Estate Market...How are you affected in this market?

Condo I need to clarify my last weeks video...my reference about the market and the price I quoted regarding the home market is really picking up under $280,000 is completely referencing single family homes. The condo and town home market has a different kind of market. The bottom line is in most cases the condo and town home market is overall at a much slower pace. It is completely a supply and demand issue. Their is an over saturated amount of condos and town homes on the market here locally in the Denver Metro area. Having said this there is certainly areas that are considered hot spots, stable spots, and declining spots. Ask me about your condo or town home and I can give a personal no cost and no obligation evaluation. As with the single family homes I still offer my 30-60-90 day home pricing strategy with condos and town homes! Have a wonderful weekend...Jim

May 02, 2008

I'm a Neil Diamond Fan...On American Idol this week I got to see Neil...I'm a huge fan!

I admit that I took an hour this week to watch Amercian Idol. I'm a Neil Diamond fan. Here is a nice video

clip from the show.

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Apr 27, 2008

Mondays Good News Market update for this week, April 28th 2008

Why would you ever want to buy or sell a home in this market?
Ignore the negative media
Buy low now, sell high in a few years!
Areas that are hot!
the market is neighborhood specific
My 30-60-90 day home pricing strategy saves the day!

Apr 25, 2008

Sneak Preview of My May Lead Story!!!! You Have Got To Read This!

Signs that the Real Estate Market is Turning Around!

Reasons You May See

Greener Pastures Ahead!

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As I have been working with several home buyers this Spring, showing homes and writing offers continuously, the reality of today’s market becomes more apparent. Many people only hear the negative news reports about the economy from the newspaper or the television. Although there is a large picture of the economy forecast, each town or city’s market can vary. People ought to have a clear vision of their own market, and to keep you informed, I have recently seen quite a frenzy of buyer showings and offers in our big city!

Spring is usually a busy time for Realtors, and it continues to hold true this year! Every day I enjoy being busy and hard at work (but never too busy to put together this newsletter every month for my special clients! I’m also never too busy for your business or your referrals).

The last few months, I have noticed something interesting when showing homes to clients. It seems as though many clients are choosing to visit homes that have just barely gone under contract or have already been given offers! Often I will be showing a home, when we run into another showing of the same home at the exact same time! You see these home shoppers everywhere lately.

There are actually lot buyers out there. They may be looking for that low, good deal, but isn’t that always true, in any case? Most buyers today aren’t just out there to look; they are out there to buy.

To prove this point most of the time when we finally found the home they wanted to write a contract on invariably there were already multiple offers on the property. It was exciting and frustrating at the same time. It has even got to the point were we would write two or three offers on different properties till we finally landed one!

If this positive pace can continue, we will begin to see inventories decline, and then, in varying areas, we will see property values increase. It will not happen overnight, but it will happen. The Denver Metro area has recently seen the bottom of a declining market in my estimation. Most of this “frenzy” of activity is still under $280,000.

The property markets above $300,000 continue to see longer periods of time on the market. But eventually, when sellers are ready to move into larger homes, the higher-priced homes will start to sell at a more rapid pace. And like a domino effect, the even highest-priced homes will eventually see better times too.

You might be thinking, OK Jim, when exactly do you honestly think this will happen? No one knows for sure, but I personally predict that we will see some comfortable home value improvements by Spring 2010. In reality, those two years can go by very quickly.

With all of that said, what I am highly suggesting to you this, if you have been considering moving or purchasing an investment home, now is the time to do it. If you are happy where you are, then you ought to stay. But if you or someone you know has been on the verge of making a move, I want to emphasize my suggestion that now is the right time to make your move!

In fact, by the time the market actually does turn around, you or your friends and family will not want to pay more for a home you plan on purchasing. If you are ready, I am here for you or them to help determine the best way to immediately start the process.

Let me remind you to ignore the negative media. Denver and much of the state of Colorado are starting to see some improvement relative to the rest of the country. In fact, Grand Junction ’s real estate market is on fire! The Arvada zip code 80007 has also seen a substantial increase in value over the last 12 months. In this Arvada area, they have a beautiful new development of homes being built on the side of a mountain, and people are snatching them up! I believe many people are tired of holding out and are ready to move on with their plans and buy in nice areas like this.

What kind of real estate market have you seen in your neighborhood? Do you know someone who is ready to make the move? Are you ready to make yours? Where do you stand?

I would be more than willing to do some market research for you if you are at all interested in seeing what is out there. Over the phone I can tell you how many sales have recently succeeded in your area and for what price. I can also give you a ball park price quote for your own home over the phone. And if you want an even more accurate representation, I would be more than happy to visit your home and present my 30/60/90-day home pricing strategy. My initial consultations are free.

The same advice applies to you or anyone you know who will soon be purchasing their very first home! Perhaps your children or grandchildren are almost ready to purchase their first home. Hopefully you will share this information and advice with them! In fact, I have been working closely with a fantastic loan originator who might be of assistance to them as well. Please contact me and we can get the ball rolling.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Apr 20, 2008

Back From My Trip...Mondays Good News Wisdom Market Update

Listen to why asking the right questions and listening to your answers vigilantly is so critical to our success as I help you in your real estate quest!

Apr 15, 2008

Some Photo's from our Amazing Conference! I was able to capture a few good pictures. Finally there was a little magic envolved in more ways than one in my trip!

P1000880 Joe Stumpf...really has Magic Words for us to communicate in a fashion that elevates us to a higher level.

P1000881 Lunch with Vivian & Lisa after hearing Joe and being amazed what what value he gave us. I accompanied 200 other top Realtors and Lenders across our great nation and I fed off their expertise. Later I joined several of my fellow "By Referral Only" members to share our strengths in a session of inspiring talks. It was a wonderful time of learning, sharing, and networking!

P1000885 Dean who has a masterful mind with Tricia my friend from Salt Lake City. Dean gave us new insight on how to show more value to our customers so we can earn more of their trust.

And finally a new friend Jim I met from Columbia, Maryland asked me to join him on our final night for a little magic that amazed both of us fellow magicians who also have our own bag of magic tricks. Lance Burton is a real master at the art of illusion. If you're ever in Vegas...you must see this guy. Here is a video of levitation that is truly amazing:

Watch This Video...

Apr 11, 2008

A Very Special Conference I Am Attending...Strategic Forum

Las_vegas I will be out of town...out of Denver...for a special conference. Twice a year I attend this conference to sharpen my saw! I go to re-energize. Learn the latest and greatest ways to better serve my clients and customers. I will be gone: Sunday April 13th and back Thursday April 17th 2008.

For those that would like to know which conference I am attending and the company behind it go to www.mybyreferralonly.com

My team will be covering me. Please call 303-933-7000.

Apr 06, 2008

Mondays Good News...Relationships...Here's a couple of great references you may need!

The importance of relationships to me...how important are they to you?

This week I feature two people on my reference link:

1) Chad Newton with Newton Ceramic & Stone Cell 720-382-4790. If you need ceramic tile work done with either repairs or new installs contact Chad!

2) Char Atencio with CTX Mortgage office 303-488-0435 or cell (303) 601-8346. She does just an outstanding job with my clients and has many loan products with CTX because they are a large company and they stay up with this changing mortgage market.

Listen to this video (5 minutes and 13 seconds) to here my passion for these two featured references! Plus don't forget about all my other references under my categories link: Jim's Favorite References!

Two Great Things are Happening...

Amongst all the business of my work I do get to enjoy some things of life. I did sneak in a bicycle ride and a Red Rocks stadium run with my brother Jon. Also two really big things are happening this weekend:Rockies_clip_art

First thing: As you can see our Champions the Colorado Rockies baseball are playing again! Char Atencio a lender I highly respect and enjoy working with took me to the game. She works for CTX mortgage and she is in my reference list. Every year CTX mortgage goes to the Home opener and they take some of their clients to the game. Char chose me! I was so honored and even though we lost it was a beautiful day! I got to meet her processor and many other CTX people. It was really fun. Thank You Char...and I want all my Blog visitors to make sure and call you when they need to refinance or purchase a home! (Check out her information under Categories: Jim's Favorite references)

Secondly, I am enjoying a conference this weekend. Twice a year I get to stay at home for church and watch conference on TV. Our leaders inspire us. I really feel that if you have never heard this before you may want to give it a try. If you do have cable or satellite TV you can catch it on the BYU channel. They are on today at 10:00 PM and 2:00 PM. Or if you click below you can catch it on your computer!

LDS Conference Going On Now...Click HERE! 

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Mar 30, 2008

Good News! Who Do You Admire? 3 minutes and 15 seconds

People You admire!
Jack Lalanne's 10 Point Plan, still works today!
My Mom & Dad
Bicycle season begins soon!
Who do you admire...post it in comments now

Jack Lalanne's 10 Point Plan, 3 minutes and 40 seconds

Mar 29, 2008

Estes Park Western Photo

Western_shot_jpeg_2 My youngest daughter Janelle got to go to Estes Park over Spring break with her friends. They took one of those Western photo's. Have you ever done that? Today we were able to go Downtown Denver and go to the Art Museum. It was a lot of fun. Then we went to one of our favorite restaurant's:

Pasquinis 

I have a client that works there and he treated us!

Mar 26, 2008

Foreclosures...Just the facts Baby!

Past_due_stamp My Coach sent me these statistics today. I wanted to share them with you my friends and clients. This is an interesting fact about how we really stand with foreclosures. The Media hype is just making it sound like we are in the dumps. Don't get caught in that mess. Read on...

30% of all homes in America have no mortgage; that means they are owned outright.
20% of all homes in America are owned by investors and are currently rented.
50% of all homes in America have a mortgage.
.05% of all the homes that have a mortgage are in foreclosure.

Those are the facts. If you watch CNN, you would think it was 1 out of every 2 homes being repossessed, when the fact is only 1 out of every 400 is in foreclosure and 75% are in California, Arizona, Nevada and Texas.

Just the facts please!

Mar 25, 2008

Very Interesting Lead Story in My April Newsletter

Connection

Are You Plugged In?

Is being plugged in important

to you? Here are just a few ways

we all can be plugged in these days:

  • Cell Phone
  • Home Phone
  • E-Mail
  • Internet
  • Google
  • Blackberry
  • I-Phone
  • PDA
  • Websites
  • Blogging
  • Text messaging
  • Podcast
  • You Tube

       As wonderful as many of these technologies can be there can also be a dark side to plugging in your life. I meet a lot of people in my business whether they are in or related to my business or merely a client. I find that some people love being plugged in and others seem to avoid being plugged in. We live in a society where we can be in touch wherever we go. The question is: will you let these technologies over-power you and take control your life? It is a mindset; it is not the technologies that will control your life it is you that chooses to let them control your life.

            I started thinking about the influence of technology a few weeks ago when I recorded a podcast on my Blog concerning this (to listen go to www.JimsJournal.net). I touched on some good points in my podcast and in this brief article I want to point out a few interesting points about that recording. I certainly am one that almost makes this concept of being plugged in a hobby or a way of life. Due to the nature of the real estate business, being plugged in makes it easy to get a hold myself and for me to get a hold of my clients and friends. It also makes it easy for me to return messages. When people leave a message for me by voice mail or by e-mail I want to return those messages promptly. Follow up in my business is the key to my success. Are you in a similar business or do you make yourself available for family and friends at all times?

I have been taught that putting away or turning off the cell phone can be a good thing sometimes for your mental well being. I call it time blocking. Rather than keep your clients, family, and friends guessing at when you might call them back can you imagine how nice it would be for them if you would initially let them know when you would be calling them back? For instance you might accomplish this at the start of each day recording a new greeting message letting your callers know what times you will be returning their calls. This might seem like a hassle or burden to record a new greeting message each day. It actually will create freedom for you! By letting your listeners know at what times during the day you will be returning your calls, allows you not to be a slave to your cell phone and voice mail all day. This really works great when you know in advance what appointments you have during the day. You are not disturbing your appointment during critical conversations and consultations. It’s just plain polite!

When you go on vacation you can apply similar methods. You could record a greeting message letting the caller know you will be checking voice mail just once a day at 5:00 PM (or whatever time you choose) while you are out of town for emergencies. You could totally be disengaged on a trip by letting the callers know that all your calls will be handled by a team member at your office. You record a greeting message explaining that a specific person will be handling your business. You can even leave their contact information on your greeting message. Now wouldn’t that be a nice trip? We all have specific skills, strengths, and abilities. Sometimes we need to let go and come to the conclusion that we are not the only one that has skills to handle our job. Believe me their will be more work available for us when we get back and the world won’t come to an end while we are gone. It just takes a little preparation before we go on vacation. I often hear that we Americans need to learn how to vacation.

Who would have thought years ago that we could be anywhere in the world and be able to receive a message on our hand-held phone device and then reply to that message by phone or text. It’s inevitable that more technology advances are in our near future. Knowing that, we should be willing to accept the new advances, but my plea to you is to use them to your best advantage, but to make sure it won’t over-power your life. Don’t ever let it take away your freedom. Breaking away occasionally is good. It’s good for the mind, body, and spirit.

Mar 23, 2008

Mondays Good News...March 24th, 2008

For your career if you had to choose to be in front of the camera or behind the camera, which would it be?
Please post your answer on the "comment" button below.

Mar 22, 2008

Have You Heard of The Trunk Monkeys? Check out my new Humor category

Chimpanzee See Category

Humor videos, podcasts, and pictures

Or look at the Category column

Happy Easter...a special video message link for you

Easter_lillies_2  I was e-mailed this link. Whether you celebrate Easter or not and it's true meaning. I thought you might enjoy the quality of this video. See if you can feel any special feeling as you watch it. Here is the link that was sent to me:

We invite you to view "The Bread of Life"

(approximately 7 minutes), which can be found at the following Web

address: http://jesuschrist.lds.org/SonOfGod/eng/multimedia

Mar 16, 2008

New Category for your music enjoyment...

Music click on "Music Videos You Will Love" under the categories list (LOOK TOWARDS YOUR LEFT AND YOU WILL SEE THE LINK!)

Mondays Good News...Have you ever got to ride in a Limosine? 8 minutes and 20 second long video.

Have you ever flown in a plane without any turbulance? Watch and listen how I describe how flying in an airplane, and riding in a Limo verses a Taxi relates to your experience when buying or selling a home.

Plus below is a story from my upcoming newsletter in April 2008!

When One Crashes, Another One Saves The Day!

Patience and persistence pays

off with a wonderful client I

assisted recently!

           This time one of my outstanding service men referred some business my way! My friend Merrill Dart at EMW carpets and furniture was working with a nice couple who needed some new flooring. He noticed they were trying to sell their home on their own. They were having difficulty and he specifically referred my services to them. He took the time to connect us together.

            I set a time to meet these nice folks and we hit it off and I was hired to list their home and we put their home on the market. Within a short period of time we had a buyer who was working with another agent who then submitted a contract to purchase. We negotiated a fair price for all. All was going well until the buyer had their inspection. They came up with a laundry list of items that required some major expense for the seller. Considering the market and what we had sold the home for the seller I represented said they would not repair or replace the requested items. In fact most of the items they were asking for we disagreed with. To make a long story short we lost that buyer. This was our crash.

            Within a relatively short period of time we had another buyer. This one was referred to me by my seller! One day a buyer came along driving through the area and come up to take one of our flyers out of our brochure box on our for sale sign. My seller happened to be close by and had a nice conversation with this potential buyer as they were looking around. Some magic happened and my seller was able to interest them in their home. My seller immediately called me and hooked me up with this buyer and I showed them the home. We negotiated a fair contract and during our inspection we had a more reasonable outcome with some minor inspection issues that I was able to help the buyer and seller work through. We then closed the transaction. It was a real celebration! This one saved the day!

            Is there someone you know right now that needs similar help in assisting them with the sell of their home? If so, what would be the best way we could connect?

Mar 13, 2008

Foreclosure Rates 2007...We Have Hit Bottom!

As Bleak as the looks for Colorado...we have hit bottom. Consider listening to my video below.  This map of the United States should find you staring for awhile I know it did me. It really does catch your attention for some time.

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Mar 10, 2008

Mondays Good News...How's The Market?

How's The Market? More specifically How's the market in your neighborhood?

Bonus information. I found this article provided by my Coaching firm: By Referral Only. I thought it might help you financially and your relationship. It's always a juggling act when budgeting and sharing your money with your spouse or significant other. Here is a few ideas:

Money Matters

Here are some suggestions from the

Academy

of

Matrimonial Attorneys

to keep your finances – and your relationship – on track:

No matter who makes the most money, divide the household responsibilities fairly.

Set short- and long-term goals together, and stick to them unless you both agree to change them.

Each partner should have access to money they can spend any way they want.  No one should ever have to ask his or her spouse for money.

Set a budget and stick to it for at least a year.  If necessary, consult a financial counselor to help keep your finances in order.

Mar 03, 2008

Mondays Good News...Update...and Bonus pictures and video of my daughter in Fiddler on The Roof!

March 3rd 2008

  • Listed to this video (5 minutes and 30 seconds). Just some ideas on my upcoming conference in April.
  • It's all about surrounding yourself around the right people...It's no different that wanting your children to hang around the right friends. We as adults need to hang around the right kind of people too!

Here are a few photos of my daughter and her close friends as they performed in "Fiddler On The Roof" at Columbine High School over the weekend:

P1000822 Sam, Peter, and Janelle! They were all great. I'm sorry if you missed it. Please let me know if your interested and I can get you tickets for next year.

What a great performance!

Click on this video just below for just a little taste of the Play...just over a minute long

P1000821 Janelle with a goofy smile

She is just a little camera shy!

Mar 01, 2008

Tonight I saw these guys...Fantastic! My Brother-in-Law Gary Stephens is the French Horn Player. Enjoy The United States Air Force Academy Band, Stellar Brass!

These guys are one of the most entertaining Brass Bands in the World. You should try and see them. It was a free concert tonight at a church in Littleton, CO! They travel all across the USA!

Feb 25, 2008

Plugged in...what does it mean for you? 9 minutes of thought provoking talk on this subject

From Jim Urban

Are you plugged in?
How important is it to you?
Do you take recovery time from being plugged in?
Do you time block?
Do you truly take time to be away from all communication during vacation or when you need to focus on something?
We are in a different world now. Are you willing to change with the times?

Please post your comments below...

Mondays Good News...There are more options than just Bank Owned homes...

Right now in our market place you must look at all your options, not just Bank Owned homes for purchase considerations...listen and find out why! 3 minutes and 59 seconds of current day obversations!

Feb 23, 2008

Sneak Preview of my March 2008 Lead Story...I really think you will like it and find it very interesting

Family

The Secret To Family Success and Happiness Whether Your Single or Not!

7 key elements to a happier family

By Jim A. Urban

Recently I attended a conference on the family. The theme was “Building up a Righteous Prosperity.” It was so impactful on me that I wanted to share 7 key elements I feel that would benefit you and your family. I certainly don’t profess to be the perfect example on this subject, just one who really tries to do his best. Throughout the years it really has been a challenge to try and balance family, work, and all the other aspects of my life such as exercise, recreation, and spirituality. It takes a lot of time to build and maintain strong relationships with my clients in real estate. You may have a career that also takes a lot of time and determination. I know that my job even requires some odd hours and some willingness to bend my schedule. Having said this, I refuse to let my business stand in the way of a successful family. Here are the seven elements I wanted to share with you today: Pattern your family, ignore political correctness, commitment, weekly family quality time, daily study time (personal and as a family), avoid what the world says is right, and family always comes first. Please take these 7 ideas to heart and apply them to your life and the lives of those special family members in your life.

            Whether you are single, have a spouse, or have children. You should pattern your family structure after another family that you desire to be like. It’s almost like mentorship; find a family to mentor. I know in my case we have patterned our life after 2 or 3 families. Find qualities that you admire and seek after those qualities. I have always striven to follow those families where the children have grown up as achievers. Not just those who abstain from drugs, alcohol, or tobacco. I look to families which have raised children who have become highly educated and have crystal clear visions of who they are, where they want to go, and who they want to become. The key is how do you pattern that? My thought to that is ask the parents questions as to what they did, what they do daily and weekly as they raise their family. What are their routines? Then pattern your family after these traits and characteristics.

            Ignoring political correctness is just another way of saying that you and your family refuse to follow the way the world says you should do things. If you and your family decide that going to church weekly is a better activity then to be involved in Sunday sporting events then you should not let the world’s political correctness stop you from achieving that objective. Maybe you and your family decide to take on some volunteer work in for the “Food Bank of The Rockies” instead of going to a 2 day family ski trip. Don’t ever worry about what other people think or let political correctness stop you from doing something that helps others and helps you or your family.

            This next one may be a little twist to your thinking. If you are married the word “commitment” obviously should be a major factor for each person. A commitment towards each other is vital. I want to suggest a new way of thinking. As I was at this conference it was shown as a commitment between husband, wife, and Heavenly Father (or your higher power). It should not merely be a two way commitment, but a 3 way commitment including the Lord (or higher power). This way of thinking will keep more harmony and love into the relationship. You must include your spirituality in your marriage or there is less common ground and a weaker base that will guide your relationships growth or how the children will be raised. If you are single your relationship is a two way commitment. It is between you and your higher source. You should always look towards this guidance.

            If you religiously block out some time each week for family time, your family will be more fulfilled. I’m talking about other than sporting events, recitals, going out to eat, or vacations. I’m talking about for example taking one night a week to sit down as a family and have family discussions or activities. It can be focused on a spiritual nature, planning events, or activities that involve everyone. It can include singing, prayer, and study. Some weeks it could just include getting ice cream together, maybe going to the park to play. If you take this time each week, your family will grow closer and reach heights higher than you could have ever imagined! If you are single getting together with extended family or friends once a week to do similar things can certainly add to your personal and spiritual growth.

            Personal and family study will enhance your life and give you purpose. The best way to start or end the day is with a spiritual uplift. Whatever you read to get that spiritual support should be done on a daily basis. Whether it is the Bible or other uplifting and thought provoking reading, I believe the human mind needs this on a daily basis to instill purpose, learning, and even insight specifically for that day! If you have read it before many times the spiritual guidance you get the second or third time is never quite the same and could be the inspiration you needed.

            The world and the way family is portrayed on TV, movies, internet, and in the media is not the way we should necessarily follow. We all know how powerful these influences can be. As much good comes from these sources, much false teachings can also come from these areas. I’m not one who says you should never do or watch these things; I am just saying that you should not always follow what they portray as ok for you to do. For example they may give you the idea that having children is not a good thing or maybe only having one is ok. They may portray that living together before marriage is ok. They may also teach that commitment is not necessary. The conference I attended taught me that you should build your family around a “Gospel Culture.” Find a group, church, or God centered culture to build and rally your family around. At this point your family can grow spiritually by being around like-minded people who have the same purpose and goals.

            Always put family first. Even though you must work to provide, you must always choose your family first. What does this really mean? It means that in order to have a constant feeling of love at home, putting family first must become a habit in order for it to work in our society; especially now and it won’t get any easier in the future. Our society, in many respects, is tearing the family apart. Divorce has reached high peak percentage; it is higher than ever. Children are moving out of the home earlier and most often they have no crystal clear visions of their future. In this world we need specialized knowledge in our fields of work. We must have a positive attitude towards our goals and work at them daily. As parents or heads of the household we must be decisive in nature. We must not wimp out when it comes time to raise children! Lastly, we must surround ourselves with others that have a common goal. I challenge you to write down those people you know best and then ask yourself if that is the role model you want for your family to follow. I would suggest that maybe you might need to change who you hang around?

            I have enjoyed touching on these ideas and hope that you would consider following these principles.

Feb 18, 2008

The Secret is Change....Mondays Good News!

The Secret is Change!

  • Don't change, you die
  • Lenders tighten their underwriting belt again
  • Humor helps with change...listen to some funny quotes from: "How to Confound Your Coworkers :-)

Feb 14, 2008

A Great Experience You Must Check Out! Happy Valentines Day!

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Wonderful Pictures...Elissa's Mission update

Here is one Sample:

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Feb 11, 2008

Mondays Good News...out of town for a few days note

One Minute and 6 Seconds...Out of town note.

  • Special week...I'm taking Elissa my 21 year old to the Mission Training Center in Provo, Utah.
  • Hear her brief send off note.
  • I will be back on Valentines day...look forward to this week and then getting back!
  • Make your day a Joyful one!

Feb 10, 2008

Mission Celebration As We get ready to bring our 21 year old daughter to the Mission Training Center...

To view all the pictures go to: www.elissamissionary.blogspot.com ENJOY!

We had many friends and family gather as we were getting ready to send Elissa off to Argentina.

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Feb 04, 2008

Mondays Good News Wisdom Market update Video 4 minutes and 10 seconds

Mondays Good News...

  • Congratulations to the New York Giants who are now Super Bowl Champions! What an upset!
  • Denver's home prices have hit bottom! I found proof! Just listen...plus do you want to know the specific value of your home? Just let me know and we can discuss your home value based on a 30 day home sale.